Shawn Ashmore, Renowned ‘X-Men’ Actor
Opens Up About the Heartbreaking Loss of Close Friend
Tragic Murder of Mei Li Haskell
Published July 15, 2025 1:33 PM PDT
Shawn Ashmore and his wife Dana are courageously sharing their feelings regarding the devastating 2023 murder of their dear friend Mei Li Haskell. They are finally able to express their sorrow and seek closure after the tragic death of the alleged perpetrator, Sam Haskell Jr, who was the son of the legendary TV agent Sam Haskell. His death by suicide has spared them the pain of a prolonged trial and all the emotional turmoil that comes with it.
The talented “X-Men” star and his wife shared their heartfelt emotions with TMZ, stating, “Our hearts are heavy, but we feel some small sense of peace knowing there is finally a bit of closure. We are mourning the loss of an extraordinary mother, someone who poured her entire heart into her three boys and never stopped putting them first.” This statement reflects the profound impact that Mei Li had on their lives and the lives of her children.
For a significant period, the couple was unable to share their thoughts regarding the case, as they were actively collaborating with law enforcement as representatives for their close family friend. This involvement was crucial, considering the sensitive nature of the case and the emotional toll it took on them.
Shawn and Dana developed a close friendship with Mei Li after their children formed bonds at their Los Angeles school approximately three years ago. They describe Mei Li as an incredible mother who was always present, immensely loving, and perpetually giving of herself. Her nurturing spirit resonated not just with her own children but also with those around her, creating a warm and supportive environment.
The couple fondly remembers Mei Li as an enthusiastic pickleball player with a passion for Pokémon cards. They recount a beautiful memory of her bringing back a children’s cooking set from China as a thoughtful gift for their kids. “She was so generous, so kind, so loving,” Dana expressed. “She’s someone that never deserved this tragedy.” This sentiment highlights the depth of their friendship and the joy Mei Li brought to their lives.
As previously reported, Haskell faced serious accusations of brutally murdering Mei Li and her parents in late 2023. The allegations included horrific acts of dismemberment and the disposal of her remains in a trash bin. These details have shocked the community and underlined the tragic loss of an innocent life.
Tragically, last Saturday, Haskell died by suicide at the Twin Towers Correctional Facility in Los Angeles. Sources indicate that he left behind a note expressing that he would miss his three best friends—his children. This heartbreaking revelation adds another layer of sadness to an already tragic situation.
Moreover, L.A. County District Attorney Nathan Hochman informed TMZ that prior to his arrest, Haskell had purchased a one-way ticket to Japan for both himself and his girlfriend, suggesting he may have had plans to abandon his children. This revelation raises further questions about his intentions and the circumstances surrounding this tragic case.
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For Shawn and Dana, the loss of Mei Li is not just a tragedy; it is deeply personal and profoundly impactful. As they reflect on their cherished memories and her remarkable legacy, they hold tight to the beautiful moments they shared and the exemplary role Mei Li played as a mother and friend.
Shawn and Dana express that Mei “was more than a friend; she went above and beyond for everyone who had the gift of knowing her. Her love, her laughter, her warmth — she is deeply missed and will always be cherished in their hearts.” This statement encapsulates the essence of who Mei Li was and the indelible mark she left on their lives.








