David Bridges
The Punisher: An Insight into the Life of an Exotic Male Dancer
Revealing the First Encounter with Diddy and Cassie
Unforgettable Moments: Baby Oil, Astroglide, and Wigs
Published May 20, 2025 10:59 AM PDT
Sharay Hayes, widely recognized in the entertainment industry as the exotic male dancer known as “The Punisher,” is currently providing crucial testimony for the prosecution in the high-profile Diddy trial. During this legal proceeding, he recounted his initial encounter with Cassie and Diddy, revealing that the couple had specifically hired him to craft a captivating and sensual erotic scene tailored to their desires.
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Hayes disclosed that his first engagement occurred in 2012, when he received a call from a woman who arranged for him to perform a midnight gig at the prestigious Trump International Hotel located in New York City. He anticipated a lively performance for a group of attendees, but upon arrival, he was surprised to find only Cassie, dressed in a bathrobe and wearing a wig, awaiting him alone in the dimly lit room.
During his testimony, Hayes recounted that Cassie instructed him that neither she nor Diddy, who he failed to recognize at the time, wished for him to perform an actual dance. Rather, they preferred that he create a more intimate, sexual atmosphere using baby oil to enhance the experience.
Hayes vividly described the ambiance of the room, which was dimly lit and adorned with several bottles of baby oil strategically placed for use. He mentioned that Cassie informed him they would apply the baby oil to enhance the sensuality of the moment, and that Diddy would eventually enter the room to observe. Cassie cautioned him against acknowledging Diddy when he arrived, emphasizing the need for discretion. To further solidify the arrangement, Cassie generously handed him $800 as payment for his services.
According to Hayes, he proceeded to strip down to just a towel and followed Cassie’s lead, mimicking her actions by pouring baby oil over himself. It was at this moment that Diddy entered the room, holding a bottle of Astroglide lubricant. Hayes testified that Diddy provided subtle directions to Cassie, making adjustments to the lighting and positioning her body, before eventually retreating with her into another room. He later recounted that Cassie returned to inquire if he wanted to continue, but he declined the offer, after which Cassie generously compensated him with an additional $1,200.
Hayes elaborated that he was hired approximately 8 to 12 times, and initially, he did not recognize Cassie and Diddy. This was largely due to the fact that Cassie was wearing a wig while Diddy had a head covering that concealed most of his features aside from his eyes. On one occasion, when he entered the hotel suite, he noticed a message displayed prominently on the television screen that read, “The Essex House would like to welcome Mr. Sean Combs,” which immediately triggered his recognition of the couple.
During his testimony, Hayes mentioned that he was an admirer of Diddy’s work and had followed the music mogul on social media platforms. After seeing the welcome message on the TV, he was able to connect the dots and recognize Cassie from various Instagram photos featuring her alongside Diddy, which allowed everything to fall into place for him.
He explained that these encounters often lasted for several hours, but he occasionally faced performance challenges. Hayes shared that both Cassie and Diddy frequently offered him drugs and marijuana during these sessions. Despite not being a habitual marijuana user, he humorously admitted to having had a “Bill Clinton” moment when he was handed a joint during one of the encounters.
A curious aspect of Hayes’ testimony revolves around its relevance to the federal charges currently facing Diddy. The music mogul has pleaded not guilty to multiple serious allegations, including 2 counts of sex trafficking, 2 counts of transportation for the purpose of engaging in prostitution, and 1 count of racketeering conspiracy, raising questions about the connection between Hayes’ accounts and the legal proceedings.
In addition to his dancing career, Hayes has gained notoriety for his performances featured in various YouTube videos. He is quite active on Instagram, where he shares glimpses of his life and work. Furthermore, he authored a book titled “In Search of Freezer Meat,” focusing on topics such as erectile dysfunction and penis implants. Notably, he included a few pages discussing his experiences with Cassie and Diddy, although he referred to them only as a wealthy couple, maintaining their anonymity.
Interestingly, Hayes shared with the jury that he earned the nickname “Punisher” while playing basketball at the renowned West 4th Street Courts in New York City, a location celebrated as one of the most prominent streetball venues in the world, adding an intriguing layer to his multifaceted persona.
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